Sunday, 5 February 2012

Tips For Life-How To Create A Great Environment For Others-Real Self Help Is Helping Others

Your Innerwealth

The ancient laws of nature provide the platform for Innerwealth management. They provide you with an independent, self determined strategy for inner self management. They help you put your inner environment under your own control and therefore create the world around you that you choose. These are the skills we share with you. A way to bring your inner environment in harmony with the outer environment you wish to create.

The key is that you get to choose it. You can choose to find more love, more success, more health, more authenticity, more happiness outside of you. You get to choose it, from the inside out.

You'll also be refreshed by the freedom of choice and control you get. No one is dictating how it should be, just linking the inner worldto the outer. The environment within to the environment without. By getting back to basics you can choose to create the outer world that is right for you, simply by grounding your choices in an understanding of the ancient laws of nature.

Choose the way you affect the world, and how the world responds to you. We are the environment we create. The inner world causes the outer. The Ancient laws of nature, building a better world.

REAL SELF HELP IS HELPING OTHERS

There is a vast difference between self help and self obsession but most people don't understand that difference. Maybe now is a good time to refresh your memory in case you too have forgotten.

Self obsession on one hand is about "me, me," and self help is about "you", "your," We originallybegan self development so that we could be better citizens, to contribute more to the world. Unfortunately along the way, commercial and power interests have gotten in the way, leading to the promise of enlightenment or eternal bliss. These are false advertising with about the same integrity as a used car add in the personals.

You have to separate your personal stuff from your contribution to the world. One is focussed on how you feel all the time, the other is focussed on how others feel. The ancient laws of natures taught that we should consider the inner self as the key to contributing to others. It should not be a means to its own end. Know your self development, your Innerwealth is how we bring the best to others.

It was taught and now can be remembered that, if you wantthe world to change, the place it begins is within yourself. There is no use askin care how others feel and we do want them to feel certain things because of our existence in the world. We might want them to feel strong, brave, inspired, generous, trusting, confident, committed to our dream, enthusiastic about what we have to say.

You can take the time right now to list down all the things you want others to feel in your presence. Of course this includes your beloved, your partner, children, work colleagues but it also extends to the people in the street. Remembering that your inner environment is transparent. Therefore, whatever you wish to give to others, you have to know that it is given to everyone, not just your close friends. When you sit on the bus or the park bench, your energy is either infecting people, or inspiring them. It's your choice.

THE SECOND STEP BRINGING IT HOME

You can't give what you haven't got. If you are not happy or content, or in harmony, then how could you cause that with others? They will see straight through you.

Authenticity means that we become what we want others to get from us. It reminds me of the tap in the pub. When you order a beer from the bar, the bar person puts the glass under the tap and fills it. Some foam always escapes the glass until there's a nice head on the beer.

The foam that escaped is not worthless. It is build into the calculationon the cost of your beer. But the pub doesn't care where it goes. It is "released" to the drain pipe.

So, with whatever you give to others, it must come from a full cup. You can't walk around unhappy and hope that your smile will make others happy. You can't walk around angry and expect to make others peaceful. It just doesn't work like that.

Anger boils over and we can give anger to people as easy as we can give love to them. A business person who comes home at night with frustration or fear about their business is filling their home with "negative" energy, even if they think they "covered it up"

So, the ancient laws of nature cut through the myths and give you ways of processing the world around you so that you stay in the space you choose to cause for others. Inother words you think giving, not taking, you think action not reaction.

RAW HONESTY-A BETTER WORLD

Try stepping out of the world every day for a few minutes. Go sit under a tree, take a walk or do something you love that takes no judgement. Just go and absorb yourself in nature; swim, walk, take a photo, ride a bike, smell a flower. You'll find it brings out your honesty.

For the vast majority of my clients when they first approach me, they are in total denial that they have any deep rooted emotional baggage inside. But I am lucky enough to have a really strong awareness of what is inside a human heart and I know when they are not being honest with themselves. It is quite accidental, they don't intend it. They just lose touch with the feeling and think (morehope) that it went away.

In my workshops I try to encourage people to witness nature. To see themselves reflected in all of nature. In this way I help people to unblock any blind spots. To get past all the "should and shouldn't" that runs their life. Then there's a new way of being. Instead of processing emotion, a person learns to be it.

Why do you think we have emotion? Do you think that emotion is there for nothing? I doubt you do. Emotion can really show you where you need to lift your game. If you feel guilty that you are not treating someone well, then maybe, instead of collapsing it, and becoming comfortable with "guilt" maybe you should act to make them feel honoured. Better early than late don't you think?

CONTRIBUTION

It is all about your contribution tothe world. Your humanitarian footprint. We can't give what we haven't got so, at first there might be some selfishness about it. A need to define what works and what doesn't work for you. That includes the people you hang out with. You need to be filled, and let the energy of your life overflow.

Self obsession is very, very much a waste of life. Trying to communicate "properly" or even "do the right thing" is just conformity on the outside. You have to go inside you and make a commitment to some constants. Some ideas that you want people to feel when they know you. It is no mistake to become famous, or wealthy, or a contributor. It is a choice, a choice based on how you want people who know you and the ones who don't know you, to feel in your presence.

Tips For Life-How To Create A Great Environment For Others-Real Self Help Is Helping Others

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